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Soulmate, Myself:
Omega Point

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Kairissi. Elenchus, as first order of business, I’d like to encourage our readers to survey K’s February 10, 1971 discourse. We’ll be referring to it often, but a first-hand review would be ideal.

Elenchus. There’s a lot in that lecture, I’m hoping we can do it justice concerning our “five topics.”

K. How shall we begin?

'recognition' literally means 'to know again'

E. I’d like to note that, when I first heard of our discussion assignment, a feeling of complexity fell upon me: This is a large task, I thought, speaking of the five topics. But as my head cleared I realized that the underlying basis of “the five” was identical – and, seeing this, a perception of simplicity swept away misgivings.

K. Say more on this, Elenchus.

E. Jiddu spoke of “recognition.” The root idea is “to know again.” When we properly perceive “the five”, a sense of familiarity will accompany.

Krishnamurti: "Recognition" implies previous knowledge, otherwise you cannot recognise. I cannot recognise you if I had not met you yesterday. Therefore when I say "this is truth", I have already known it and therefore it is not [new] truth. So a man who is seeking truth [without recognition] lives a life of hypocrisy, because his truth is the projection of his memory, of his desires, of his intention to find something other than "what is", a formula. So seeking implies duality - the one who seeks and the thing sought after - and where there is duality there is conflict. That is wastage of energy. So you can never find it, you can never invite it.

E. There is much here. We'll have to proceed slowly.

K. But what does this really mean, Elenchus? When we learn a truth, we also know that it’s something new: we’ve grown, now we see, and we understand that we didn’t know this before.

E. At the surface of life this is true. But, at a deeper level, paradoxically, we also perceive a familiarity. There’s an inner harmony. We say we “resonate” with the idea.

'resonate' means 'to sound again'

K. Strangely, “resonate,” too, means “to sound again” – as if we’ve heard it before. Have we heard it before?

E. Again, at the surface of life, we’ve not heard or known it before, and yet, on a deeper level, it resonates with us, somehow it feels familiar.

a perception of destiny

K. I’m playing “devil’s advocate" in my disbelief because I think we do understand what this means. When we feel this way about something, we’re prone to say things like, “It’s my destiny to have this,” or “I feel I’ve always known you,” or “It just seems so right.”

E. And here's what I think what this means for “the five topics.” Though the information might be new to us, a certain sense of foreordination, a coming face-to-face with inevitability might meet us.

K. In our heart-of-hearts, though unarticulated, we always knew it had to be that way.

Socrates: 'all learning is recollection'

E. All this reminds us of a precept in philosophy, the “doctrine of innate ideas.” It’s famously put forward in Plato’s Meno. Therein we find Socrates asserting that “all learning is recollection.” As evidence, he speaks to an uneducated slave boy about a geometry problem. The boy cannot solve the problem. However, with the aid of guiding questions by Socrates, the untutored slave does grasp the essence of the math problem.

K. We should point out that “all learning is recollection” does not refer to facts of the world: that protons live in the atom’s nucleus, that the heart is like a pump, or that stars burn hydrogen. And, for the slave boy, it doesn't mean that you'll automatically know the technicalities of Euclid's theorems of geometry.

E. It’s not about facts of the world, which must be gained by empirical research led by the brain, but we refer to an underlying sense of harmony and proportion.

K. And is this not one of the classical definitions of beauty? And isn’t this sense of the beautiful what the greatest scientists declared to be their best guide toward their discoveries?

E. All this is extremely interesting, but we must avoid the temptation of straying too far from our assigned topics. The point for us at the moment, I think, is that Krishnamurti is correct, a principle of “recognition” does come into play with a perception of truth.

Editor’s note: This sense of “recognition,” when one experiences it full force, especially at the moment of realization of the identity of one’s Twin, can be “so magnetic, so overwhelming” – Silver Birch used these phrases – that one might be sent into a state of swooning disorientation. This is not a minor event. This mystical experience brings with it floodtide perceptions of “you are just like me,” of the “utter familiarity,” of “coming home,” of “I now know that I have always loved you,” of “soulmate myself.” As such, it is understandable, if one has been indoctrinated by one’s nomos culture to believe in reincarnation, that this inundation of “recognition” should be attributed to “past lives.” Socrates himself fell into this misinterpretation. However, as we investigate further, we find another explanation becoming operative -- one that incorporates all the facts, natural law, and the teachings of the ancient Guides on the other side -- with the doctrine of “R” falling irretrievably apart. See the reincarnation page for 90 articles exploring the many details of its error.

a priori

K. We do have an inborn sense of some things. We come into this world “knowing”, or with a proclivity toward knowing, certain things. Philosophers use the term a priori – that is, prior to experience, prior to fact-gathering and inductive reasoning. We do have certain innate abilities, from day one. For example, the ability to learn and speak languages. All healthy babies pick this up virtually immediately.

the essence of what it means to be human will craft and structure the mind

E. But, I would say, our most quintessentially human, inborn attribute relates to the very structuring of the mind – our desire to make sense of the world, to rationalize, to quest for meaning, to seek for order, harmony, proportion – beauty, if you will – our desire to grow, to solve problems, to love, to know, to become more. This is what it means to be human.

'made in the image'

K. It strikes me this moment what "made in the image" is all about. And so when we assert that the truth, when we meet it, will be a form of recognition, we’re really saying that it will conform to the innate, deep structures of godly potential embedded within the mind.

E. All this serves as grand prelude to “the five.” Let’s see if we can make good on it.

K. We should start with the easy one, something we’ve often talked about.

seeking the true mate

K. Jiddu said that, when we go seeking for God or the truth, we immediately fall into trouble. And let's include the true mate here because he's part of the truth.

Krishnamurti: “You will never find it if you seek it. You understand the answer? You will never find it if you run after it."

E. This sounds strange. How are we supposed to find something if we don’t go looking for it?

K. His remark sounds like something from the Gospel Of Thomas. The Jesus of Thomas makes jarring statements like “I am not your teacher”.

E. Or here’s a good one that will make people mad: Jesus said to them, "If you fast, you will bring sin upon yourselves, and if you pray, you will be condemned, and if you give to charity, you will harm your spirits."

K. Thomas is such a great book, and it’s our wish that everyone would read it. It’s so different from the usual religious teaching. The Jesus of Thomas will almost never give you a straight answer. He addresses the underlying spirit of questions and ignores the surface meaning. In the comments about fasting and charity he means to say,

“You cannot access a God who is spirit by physical means. What you do on the outside, yes, is important, but not of primary importance, only your motivations and deep intentions of your heart will rule. Your conduct needs to reflect what you are on the deep inside.”

E. Tell us, Kriss, how this relates to the true mate.

K. You cannot find a true mate, with whom you have a spirit-connection, by physical means. This is why we've often said that you cannot find your true mate by going on a hunting expedition.

E. And this is Krishnamurti’s instruction with “You will never find it if you seek it.”

K. Finding your true mate is not like going to a department store to find a new couch or fishing rod. How would you even know the true mate when you find him? It’s as Krishnamurti said. The real problem is one of recognition. You won’t know him, you won’t recognize him, unless you first come to know your own deepest self.

E. Kriss, I’d like to say that your earlier comment in “The Wedding Song” is just about the best answer to this question. Let me quote you:

K. I would like to say something to the “Marys” of the
world. My Dears, you will not find that for which you so
earnestly seek by the methods you’ve allowed. That
inner “call,” which yearns to satisfy the womanly
unfulfilled heart, cannot be addressed by anything
material and physical. Your true mate, “somewhere
out there,” as the song goes, is not primarily a physical
body to you. But John is. And that’s the problem
with John; to you, he’s just part of the materialistic
world. But that true one, just for you, is primarily in love
with your soul, not just your body. The true marriage is
a “union of spirits” not a union of anything physical.
The physical element, fundamentally, impacts the
true marriage not at all. How could it? – we’re headed
for “the real world,” Summerland, wherein common
“flesh and blood” no longer exist. You must prepare
for that coming real world. And you must prepare
yourself to find that true one who, to you, is primarily
a spiritual entity, and no mere mortal body.

E. It’s a powerful concept – “Your true mate is
not primarily a physical body to you. But John is.”

K. I find it very comforting to know that the boy God
meant for me to be with is in love with my soul, the person I
really am on the deep inside, and not just the external packaging.

E. Thank you, Kriss, but, as we leave this segment, I don't think we've answered the question, "How shall one recognize one's true mate?"

K. I think "made in the image" also means "custom-crafted." One's true mate is not purchased "off the rack", he's not just a random draw from the many "fish in the sea." Because one's true mate specifically answers private definitions of happiness, it goes not too far to say that his image, so to speak, is etched upon her soul. And when she meets him, if she's spiritually advanced enough to have her best "radar" in place, she will surely recognize him as "the one." She will have already discerned her own "true self" and, therefore, what she's about and what she really wants, and so, knowing this, when he crosses her "radar," her internal guidance system will flash "match!" - a deep sense of "knowing" that he's the guy. He is the one designed to fulfill her particular needs and desires. Women, I venture to say, because Love is their natural domain, know this to be true, and are a little better able to do this, more than our Neanderthal brethren.

E. Uh-huh.

seeking God

K. There is little difference, in principle, between finding the true mate and finding God. Most people approach both of these from a materialistic point of view. They believe that God is “out there,” in the material universe. Well, God is spirit, and so God’s essence is everywhere – but this fact of ubiquity will not help us find God.

E. We cannot “seize”, as Krishnamurti used the term, God or the truth by “running after it,” grasping for it, as if it were a 3-D object in the material universe. This is why those who call themselves “seekers” will forever remain seekers and never find what they’re looking for.

K. People seek for God in materialism: by religious rituals, magic hand-signs and magic words, memorized prayers; in religious pomp and pageantry, in formulas and methods, in so-called holy days; by following the directives of gurus, saints, by deferring to infallible ones, and other Dear Leaders; by doing what parents and peer-group command, what heritage and custom dictate, what "local nomos" demands - but all of these lead us to failure, to remain seekers forever.

E. Elizabeth Fry, via direct-voice medium, Leslie Flint, is just about our favorite teacher on the other side as she offers her wisdom:

“… you cannot, surely, build a truly spiritual realization of God on something which is of a material conception – God is not found, in a sense, in buildings or places … God is found within one’s soul, within one’s inner consciousness.”

K. Elenchus, can you summarize what is needed, that which virtually the whole world has missed?

E. We have made it so difficult. The average person believes that only the religious elites have access to God. Most people fear that God would never speak to or directly teach the common man or woman. But this is a tragic mistake and veers widely from the mark of God’s ways.

K. And what is needed?

E. Simply quiet the mind, “go within,” and – as we learn to do this, over time – God will become more and more real to us.

K. And, I would just like to add, the principle of “recognition” is very much in play here. As we discover “God within,” as we come to know our own private link to divinity, it will all feel very “familiar,” natural, and with a sense of rightness. We will “recognize” the essence of God because our “made in the image” capacities were designed to perceive the reality of God.

seeking the truth

E. As we proceed with our discussion, I think it becomes clear that “the five” have much in common; in fact, each might be viewed as an aspect of the others.

K. And why would you say this is the case?

E. In all the universe, and also in all worlds of the other side, only consciousness – some would prefer the word “spirit” -- is real. All derives from consciousness. God is the Great Spirit - the Source, the Universal Consciousness and Intelligence.

K. And truth?

E. Truth means “reality” or “what is.”

K. This "reality" is what people fight when we say "this should not be happening."

E. But as we grow in our understanding of God, we begin to perceive that all things have meaning, and even so-called "evil" plays an important part in the development of humankind.

K. And so, all that happens on the sorrowful planet Earth is part of "the truth," all that occurs does so within the purposes of God. But the materialistic mindset cannot see this.

E. As we've said, the material world is part of reality, but when people speak of finding or seeking the truth they mean “ultimate reality.” And ultimate reality has a basis in consciousness, not matter; matter derives from consciousness. The great scientists of history affirm this. We have 100 articles on the “quantum mechanics” page exploring this from all sorts of angles.

K. It’s interesting, isn’t it – the material universe is part of reality, part of “the truth,” but there will be no satisfaction or peace until “truth” is found deep within one’s own being. And what does this mean?

E. When we find “the truth” within, we gain a “God’s eye-view,” a wide perspective, on the nature of things, and how we fit into it. We begin to perceive that we are loved, that we have a future in the Family of God, and by means of this “inner resonance,” we find our joy and strength.

K. Our “made in the image” internal structure receives this “knowing” of the truth as a form of recognition. It feels right and comforting to us.

E. It feels like coming home.

the meaning of 'praying always'

E. I’ve been looking forward to talking about this.

K. And, of course, we have an entire article on the subject of prayer.

E. It’s a good article, but I thought that seeing prayer within the context of “the five” would add new depth of meaning.

K. What are you seeing?

E. In our discussion to this point, we’ve acknowledged that only consciousness is real, consciousness is primary, not matter; only the things of the spirit might impart enduring happiness. And a proper view of prayer will incorporate this understanding.

K. In the article on prayer, we emphasized that it's not meant to be a lobbying effort to make God do what we want. This venal view of prayer is problematic on many levels: we don’t even know what’s good for us, and those things truly good are already being worked on for us by God and the Guides.

E. Which begs the question, why then should we ask?

K. There is a place for asking, but, as we mature in our relationship with God, we don’t really ask as much for “things” anymore, because these are already being looked after.

E. And so remind us, what did the apostle Paul mean when he said, “pray always,” “pray without ceasing”?

K. He certainly did not mean “be in a constant frantic state of ‘gimmee, gimmee,’ of twisting God’s arm to do our will.”

E. Then what?

K. Instead of asking for “things,” we are to ask – which is the essential meaning of the word “prayer” – to always be in communion with the Great Spirit. As we come to live in this elevated level of consciousness, all of our troubles fade away in a satisfaction of knowing God intimately.

E. They fade away because, in that state of prayer, we "recognize" that everything in life is unfolding for the best. We might not always be happy -- because happiness is related to happenings, which we don't control -- but the spiritual mind always knows an element of joy.

the errant reincarnation, emphasizing experience

K. We come to the last of “the five.”

E. I’m glad that “R” is included on the list because its error might be more readily perceived within a context of the essence of spirituality – an accessing of the all-pervasive consciousness or spirit.

K. The primary battleground of “R” is that of emphasizing experience. The proponents of reincarnation are convinced that more experience will translate into more spirituality.

E. It's the materialistic view. But I would challenge any true-believer of “R” to credibly defend this thesis.

K. Some of the best teachers on the other side, like Dr. Pebbles (here and here), say that those who crave to come back, those who put too much emphasis on experience, do so because they have not yet found the life within.

E. And that's the real issue. Experience is all they know, and so they think it's the winning ticket.

K. Dr. Peebles on the other side speaks so forcibly:

"Do not become hypnotized in any way by dogma, creed, or belief [which supports reincarnation], but find God within yourself and be free. Ask to hear, to see, to feel, and to know God, then your eyes will be opened to spiritual things and [then] you will not want to come back to this earth life again."

Editor's note: Dr. Peebles passed on in 1922. His testimony offered via Anna Wickland is some of the wisest and most helpful I’ve encountered over the years. However, during the last hundred years, extending to the present day, several other mediums have claimed that Peebles speaks through them. I have not reviewed them all but, one of them especially, to be frank, I do not believe that the Dr. Peebles we’ve known is speaking. The current version strikes me as a silly spirit, mouthing empty platitudes, babbling, moreover, at times, spewing nonsense, teachings contrary to natural law, of the sort that the 1922 Peebles would disown. One needs to be careful of identities as mischievous spirits are not unknown to impersonate a famous teacher.

E. There is no equivocation with him. Our readers are encouraged to review his entire fervent testimony.

K. We’ve seen that “the four” draw life and strength from the inner “recognition”. It's a realization of the "inner life." Notice how Dr. Peebles points out the same: "Ask to hear, to see, to feel, and to know God, then your eyes will be opened to spiritual things and [then] you will not want to come back to this earth life again."

E. By "ask" he means "pray" to be shown the real life within. This is a great example of Paul's "pray without ceasing."

K. This is what we should be asking for.

E. The inner recognition is what truly opens the eyes. It happens in one moment of clarity, not in a hundred-thousand lives. It's the sense of “coming home,” the “utter familiarity,” that moves us deeply and elevates to a more lofty plane of consciousness. This occurs in a timeless moment of revelation.

Everything that has a beginning is also subject to an ending.

But there exists a domain beyond the reach of time’s degradation. There, things simply exist, eternally, have always been, have no opposite, no duality, and do not suffer loss.

K. Krishanmurti speaks much of the “time-bound” mental view. The myopic brain, he says, can never find freedom. By “time-bound” he means a mind that seeks for safety and security in the past or future. We seek to be free from the hurts of the past, or we look to the future as utopian salvation, but none of this escapism addresses the core issue – that of, the materialistic mind, terrified of its mortality.

E. I would suggest that we direct our readers to the full text of his February 10, 1971 lecture. We should not reproduce it here; it comes with much commentary by the author. Our opportunity to provide clarification, I think, rests in placing “R” firmly within a wider platform of consciousness-based concepts. In other words, we see the previous “four” finding their vitality in the all-pervasiveness of spirit, of consciousness; that, a full-bodied acceptance of this life of God, accessed within one’s own deeper person, is the means by which we evolve and advance ourselves – not by an endless iteration of materially-minded incarnations.

K. Elenchus, before we leave this subject, a comparison of “R” to the worldly view of marriage might help us. When John and Mary lose their initial “fever,” marriage counselors will admonish, “You need to work on your marriage. You need to do the things that caused you to fall in love in the first place. You need to do romantic things in order to rekindle romance.” However, as everyone knows, and I’ll bet you a dollar to say, no one in the history of the world has ever revived the corpse of a dead “fever” by multiplying romantic “experiences”. It doesn’t work that way, and everybody knows it. Once the biologically-based “fever” of early romance is gone, it’s not coming back. And it doesn’t matter how many experiences you pile up to reignite the flame, that first "fever" is over.

E. This is a good analogy. True romance, the true marriage, the true spiritual-erotic connection, has nothing whatever to do with experiences. If love is true, it will be there, even if you try your best to get rid of it, and if it’s not true, you can try your hardest to drum-up the feelings, but you will fail. And “experience” will not change the situation a whit.

True spirituality is gained only by accessing the 'inner life'.

Spirituality is about burgeoning life, blossoming, unfolding life, and this life comes only from God; life comes only from life.

Experience can prune, scintillate, and offer choices, but it cannot impart life.

Experience can effect change at the surface of personality but not at the level of core being. There, it is only the self-observation, the 'simply noticing' of the antics of the mind, which allows the true self, the divine life, to emerge.

This is the crux of the error and where the believers in 'R' go wrong.

K. The entire premise of “R” is deeply flawed. Experience cannot lift one’s level of spirituality, of consciousness, one micron, and it doesn’t matter if you try this for a hundred-thousand lives, it won’t change things a bit. The same old materialistic mind will remain intact.

E. What is needed is an accessing of the “life within.” And that occurs in one timeless moment.

Editor's note: See the "reincarnation" page for 90 articles exploring the nuances of error of this quasi-religious tenet.

concluding statement

The full text of the February 10, 1971 lecture offers valuable discourse concerning our topic at hand, and the reader is encouraged to peruse the entirety.

Krishnamurti does well in his advice concerning how to access the life within. This is very important, but the answer is very simple.

We advance ourselves simply by noticing, by observing the “inner discord” of the materialistic mind. The process of spiritual growth is as natural as a tiny acorn germinating - but then to become the majestic oak.

See the full discussion.

Restatement

How does observing the 'inner disorder' advance us spiritually?

Strictly speaking, simply seeing the workings of the dysfunctional ego in one’s own head will avail us little. But here’s what can happen next.

On the “surrender and acceptance” page we spoke of “minding the gap.” We are to come to the point of being able to mentally see that "the true self, the real me, is here” and “over there, quite distinct from me, the real me, are the clamorings of the ego.” In other words, we see the disorder without identifying with it, we see it as "not me."

When we perceive this “gap,” we have discovered our authentic selves, the part of us linked to God. This linkage constitutes one’s source of life and spirituality.

Restatement II

The following was written for the Krishnamurti page many months after closing the above writing. However, it speaks directly to the subject at hand.

When we "notice the disorder" within, we begin to sensitize our spirits to a recognition of all things in-tune with the spirit of God. This will include the energy of one's Twin mate, and this is how one will find her.

Think of The Terminator in the bar scene looking for a set of clothes. His internal scanning intelligence surveys the crowd for a match.

You're not looking for a set of clothes but a certain person, and you, too, have been scanning crowds all of your life. 

match probability 0.999999999999...

However, a day will come when one's "radar screen", calibrated to her specific vibrational essence -- one person in the entire universe -- will finally begin to wildly flash "match"!

postscript 

K. For many years, we’ve been reviewing testimonies from the other side about Twin Soul love. But I think I’ve been misinterpreting some of what we’ve read.

E. What are you seeing?

K. It’s said that the Guides superintend the coming together of Twins.

E. But don’t the Guides superintend just about everything that their charges get into?

K. Well, that’s a good point. And so, for a long time, I thought the way it worked is that, at the right time, the Guides just brought two destined ones together.

E. Well, that’s interesting because, if there’s nothing more to it, if we’re just hanging around until the Guides arrange for the big meeting, then what were we talking about with “recognition” earlier?

K. I think we’ve discovered a certain flaw in our reasoning.

E. So how does this work? Do the Guides bring Twins together or not?

K. Well, the reports say they do, and I think they do – but it’s more than just finding a new bicycle on your porch as featured in “The Secret.”

E. Yes, of course, because finding a new bicycle on the porch is pretty straight-forward, but meeting your Twin when you’re not ready will not help you.

K. (small smile) You won’t even realize that he’s a new bicycle.

E. So “recognition” is needed to activate, or receive, what the Guides put into play.

K. There’s another part of this, as well. How does this work in Summerland? It’s different for you and me because, somehow, we found each other while still on the Earth. But almost no one does that.

E. And almost no one finds their true mate even in Summerland, but only in a little bit more advanced world, or a more advanced way of thinking.

K. It can take a long time. Think about this for the growing person in Summerland. Maybe she wasn’t so spiritually minded for the first 50 or 100 years after arrival, but now she’s wishing she could be with someone.

E. But it’s not quite that easy.

K. It’s not that easy because, until one secures one’s “eyes in the head,” that better level of consciousness, there’s no way to recognize the true mate. And so the girl in my example, let’s say, has heard about Twin Souls. She’d love to have one, but how to start? She approaches a Troubadour Spirit Guide for counseling. She’s hoping that by some greater vision, some spiritual magic or wizardry, that the Guide might somehow know who she’s meant to be with. They might have a general idea, and as one matures, the options might narrow to a few. 

E. Now this is a very important point, and, I have to admit, I got this wrong for a long time. The Guides do not know who your eternal mate is! Only the couple themselves, by analyzing their own “soul energies”, will be able to determine.

K. This is an extremely important point of understanding. Now, at a later time, if you’ve been working on developing your “radar,” then eventually you’ll be much more ready to find your “match”, and when you do, your Guide might be able to say, “well, I sense the energy from both of you, and it really does feel like it could be a match.” But even with this, it’s the Guide’s opinion; I mean, the new potential mate might be “just” a soulmate, of which there could be several, and not your one-and-only Twin mate. The Guides can’t be absolutely certain. Only you can do that.

E. So where does this leave the searching girl?

K. When she first discusses her desires with a Guide, all he’ll say is,"you have to learn to ‘go within’ and find your true self.” And until she does, and learns how skillfully use this inner force, she’s going nowhere in terms of finding her true mate. Now, in the meantime, she can attend classes the Guides run on Twin love, she can learn all sorts of generic information, which will help prepare her generally, but nothing can really create “lift off” for her without that internal guidance system clicking.

E. People will ask us, how long does it take to create the “radar”?

K. And we can’t answer that because, as Krishnamurti said, “truth is a pathless land,” you can’t bottle and sell the process for 29.95, you can’t label it and pin it down. We have no power over the soul to direct its timetable for awakening. This acknowledged, I’ll just say, it could take her 5 years, 20 years, or more, we can’t tell. The author, in his own case, once he started working on this process in earnest, says it took about 15 years before he knew a big difference in himself. He said that there were changes in his spirit, even after, say, 5 years, but these were noticeable only to the people around him, not to himself.

E. Kriss, I once thought, let’s say you’re in Summerland, and you think you know who your Twin is, and so now they believe they have to get permission from the Guides to have their wedding ceremony. But this idea is all wrong. There is no “marriage police” over there, and no one will stop anyone from doing seemingly reasonable things deemed to offer happiness. So this couple can just “go and get married” if they want to.

K. Go knock yourself out. And now the question will be asked, well, what if they’re wrong? What if they declare themselves ready for the ceremony, but what if they later find it doesn’t work out for them? Aren’t Twins supposed to represent the marriage than “cannot be sundered”?

E. This is absolutely true for Twins, and so if they later find themselves feeling more like John and Mary, all this means is – there were never actually Twins in the first place, they just wanted to believe that they were.

K. And so, with this area of life, along with every other area, if we rush in headlong, without our “soul energies” activated to serve as guidance system, all we’ll end up doing is just adding more suffering to our lives.

E. There are no shortcuts here. Without a firm and substantial discovery of the “the true self,” we fly blind in all of our decisions in life. And the Guides can’t save us.

K. We can’t go to them, as a surrogate of materialistic prayer to God, “Oh, Mr. Guide, won’t you please show me who my eternal mate is, I’m so lonely, I need him.” But the Guides can do nothing.

guides can only guide

E. The Guides can do nothing because all they can do is “guide” – like natural selection in Darwinism, they’re more like editors of the process not authors.