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Eckhart Tolle, in a discussion with Peter Russell, asserted that the scientist, in order to access the higher levels of knowledge, must become a mystic. Peter Russell, one of the world’s great physicists, agreed with this statement. What does it mean?

When it becomes our time to enter Summerland, the “real world,” contrary to popular myth in some quarters, you won’t feel much different. You won’t suddenly enjoy access to all mysteries of the universe. There won’t be any “instant make-over,” such that, your loved ones, or you, yourself, would not recognize the “same old you.”

However, let us take care here. Father Benson is fond of saying that our human potential – “human” as in quite godlike – knows “no discoverable upper limit.” And in one of his taped testimonies from the 1960s, an ancient afterlife-entity stated that any person in Summerland, now with expanded mind-powers, can become ultra-proficient at any subject. Any subject. Only one's personal interest and application-to-task shall be a limiting factor. For example, he said, let’s say you really like music; well, if you devote the next 100 or 200 years to your craft, you have the opportunity to become as skilled and gifted as, or even greater than, any lauded musician, song-writer, or symphony-composer of history! There is “no discoverable upper limit” to what you might make yourself into.

The scientist must become a mystic. The scientific method is wonderful and has snatched humankind from the anti-humanistic, stultifying heavy-hand of Big Religion’s orchestrated Dark Ages. But science might address only those things that can be quantified with tape-measures and balance-scales. When we get to Summerland, we won’t be running around in white lab-coats; well, I take it back, as there is a great deal of scientific research going on in Summerland, more than on Earth; however, that acknowledged, what Eckhart said is still true: the highest level of knowledge will not disgorge itself to test-tubes and Bunsen-burners.

The higher levels of knowledge become available only through elevated states of consciousness. This is the realm of the mystic – one who is able to access knowledge without the aid of the five senses. This loftier knowledge comes not from nothing, but is a direct accessing of wisdom and insight from Universal Intelligence.

In Summerland you will have decisions to make. “How will I spend my time? Where might I contribute? What subjects should become my specialty?” And most importantly, “Where is my Twin Soul? How will I find her among the billions over here? Where is she?”

Advice will always be available. For the asking, Spirit Guides will come to us to discuss our goals and concerns, and if our question is particularly nettlesome, we can even summon a specialist Spirit Guide from higher dimensions who will come to us for private discourse. One would think that an ability to enter this “privy council of elders” would be sufficient to all our needs. But it doesn’t work that way.

While the Guides will give us their best judgment, or, more likely, a range of good possibilities, they themselves will be quick to have you know, “Take what we say, if you like, but accept nothing unless it resonates as truth within your own deepest person. You must trust yourself; your true self.”

Editor’s note: In ancient Greek literature we often find references to making pilgrimage to Apollo’s Temple at Delphi to speak to the local seer. People do the same today. Psychic messages can be a help, but it begins to stunt our growth if we rely on this to the exclusion of coming into a knowledge of the “true self.”

 

finding one's heart is the surest way to individuality

Star Trek Voyager, season seven, episode “Human Error”

The Doctor: “Finding one’s heart is the surest way to individuality.”

 

authentic romantic love, the best means toward self-realization

There is one avenue to the sublime which opens the door to the soul widest of all. As we learn from Kahlil Gibran, via his biographer, "love is a means - perhaps the best means - to self-realization, without which one is less than a full person"; which suggests that we find our godlike maturity only with love's mediation. This augmented level of sentience is what "The Wedding Song" refers to as lovers "giving life," each to the other. Such reciprocity becomes aid to evolvement, an opening of the eyes to how things truly are and what they portend for us.

The sacred beloved, more than any other agent of vivification, serves as catalyst to this enhanced awareness. With her, one “sees nothing but eternity,” a cosmic destiny unfurled, an invitation to the mind of God; without her, he will not find reason to fully develop himself.

She is the one he stays alive for; it is she, her "made in the image" beauty, which ignites "the translucence," a shining through, "of the eternal splendor of the One" and of the Truth; and without receipt of such he will not endure the terror of living forever.

 

 

In all the universe, there are no infallible holy books, nor all-knowing gurus. Even the ancient and sage Guides can make mistakes. There is no “holy casuistry,” no inerrant case-based reasoning to save us from doubt. Just because the Guides’ advice might have been a help in times past, your situation will be different. We must ever “test the spirits,” we must go within, must access Universal Intelligence for a clear reading concerning your particular set of facts.

We must enter an elevated state of being and consciousness to perceive the higher aspects of truth.

Our primary teacher in the universe, and for all time, in close competition with one's own soul, is the Sacred Beloved. In her presence we access levels of joy unavailable by other means. And joy is the unalloyed mind of God. She, as “made in the image,” custom-crafted for her mate, will become a portal of entry to highest perceptions of divinity. And this joy, more than any other factor, will lead both of them into all truth.

But she will not be found without a better state of consciousness. The problem isn't finding her, it's recognizing her. She might be around you now, or had been around you, but if you lacked "eyes to see," she might as well have been on Mars.

Spirit Guide Margaret said that those individuals – very few in number -- who discover, or even glimpse the identity of, a Twin Soul while still in this world, as she said, are in heaven already.

Do you see the implications of the wise Spirit Guide’s comments?

We stumble around on pages like this attempting to piece together a framework of acceptance for the afterlife. But those who have known love, pure love, in its unadulterated form, need no convincing that life goes on, nor are they confused about the nature of ultimate reality. They themselves become their own eternal evidence. They’re already experiencing the heady joys of the afterlife; they're already there.

But why should an accessing of joy become title-deed to the unending life? Kairissi explained it to us at the end of “Prometheus” – “Darling Dear, some things are too wonderful to be untrue.”

 

the most important concept on the Word Gems site

One of my favorite essays is “What we stay alive for.” This is the crux of the matter. We need to come alive, which is primary importance, but, once alive, we need a reason to stay alive. In the writing “500 tape-recorded messages from the other side” we learn of a vast class of people over there who have not yet found their reason to live; as such, they drift into various levels of insanity.

On the “Prologue” page of “The Wedding Song” we are reviewing various testimonies speaking to the reality of Twin Souls. The mystic Omraam Mikhael Aivanhov, however, better than others, intuitively grasped the sense of importance to be accorded Twin love as vital component of the spiritual mind of wisdom.

“The soul ... is itself only one-half of a complete being. For each of us there is a counterpartal [person] of the opposite polarity. And our pilgrimage towards emancipation [from illusion] consists in drawing ever nearer to this balancing factor ... so that, in the end, [while retaining sacred individuality,] we become [effectively One Person,] a male-female being in whom the positive and negative forces are in perfect equilibrium, reflecting the nature of the Male-Female Creator. Only through the perfect union of two souls of the opposite sex can that blending of forces be achieved which brings freedom from illusion and the full experience of Reality.”

Aivanhov gets it exactly right. It’s only through the union of destined Twins that a complete “freedom from illusion and full experience of Reality” might be achieved. Notice the emphasis. We might have expected to hear of "a complete happiness" but instead "a complete freedom from illusion" is presented as central concept.

They say a picture is worth a thousand words; but, this one, right here, might be worth the entire Word Gems site - as a bride’s loving and joyous demeanor encapsulates, and well expresses, human destiny, purpose and meaning, freedom from illusion, sacred personhood, full humanity, and ultimate reality.

Why is Twin Soul love the doorway to ultimate wisdom, evolvement, and spiritual vision? - because it reflects the highest expression of ultimate reality, the subsuming influence and dominion of Mother-Father God.

The concept of “highest reality” brings to mind once again “the 500 tape-recordings from the other side.” Among these one finds the occasional testimony from those who were famous during their Earth sojourn; accomplished individuals – scientists, statesmen, and the like – they continue some of their work in Summerland.

However, concerning their personal lives, many of these did not live moralistically, and as they spoke one discerned that this attitude of using others for one’s private pleasure had not yet been expunged from their spirits. There was a certain “hollowness” and “brittleness” to their viewpoint.

Despite great accomplishments, one is left with an impression that they had not yet met “ultimate reality”, were still quite materialistic in their thinking. And this is what Omraam Mikhael Aivanhov is getting at when he says that true love is the doorway to freedom from illusion, an illusion of materialistic perspective; instead, authentic romance becomes portal to full experience of highest wisdom.

It would have to be this way as true love is not only part of the divine mind but reflects the highest domain of "what is" - the dual female-male energies - a closer attunement with, the hegemonic and "singular pervasive" reality that is, Mother-Father God. There is reason why ancient Spirit Guides refer to divinity in this manner.

See a 3-part writing on "Freedom From Illusion."

'you have not come to the arctic regions, you cannot be perfected without it'

Troubadour Spirit-Guide Margaret: “[Twin Soul] love is the atmosphere of this life [in Summerland]. You have not come to the arctic regions, but to the region where [romantic] love is a pervading influence, warming all hearts. No spirit can find its most perfect development who misses from his life the experience which [romantic] love can give him. If he has lived a loveless life on Earth, the possibility is still reserved for him here. The certainty will come to him in the future. His being cannot be perfected without it.”

The quest to experience true love is no optional side-trip. Without success in this area, eventually, we will suffer "existential crisis," and fail to properly engage the "terrors of living forever." Some time ago, I wrote several paragraphs on the subject of "no one there to fill your desire." They're included as a kind of footnote to the "What We Stay Alive For" essay, but allow me to offer this writing here in closing:

"no one there can fill your desire"

We were meant to live in community. We yearn for the company of friends and neighbors, supporting each other in life. So strong is this wish for brotherhood and sisterhood that, at times, as Father Chardin mused, it reaches almost to the level of “sensual longing.” Even so, affable association and cordial friend - none of this pleasant conviviality - can fill one’s desire.

Neither avuncular favor nor maternal warmth, not even a large kindred gathering, an immersion into familial goodwill and amity, can fill one's desire. Even in that affectionate crowd of doting loved ones, a plenary session of fervent smiles, well-wishes, and hugs all around, you will still find yourself - if only subliminally, that vague uneasy sense of - missing someone.

O thou soul of my soul

Mourning the loss of his Elizabeth, Robert Browning in Prospice [“to look forward”] soars in high-flight, addressing her, O thou soul of my soul. Many in the history of literature have spoken of woman as the life of man, but never so poignantly and felicitously. And if one’s soul could shelter a soul of its own, what would this signify? - nothing less than epicenter of meaning, purpose, and “what we stay alive for.” And so, with O thou soul of my soul, we glimpse a remedy for "no one there can fill your desire."

unlawful savior and covenant

John and Mary cannot fill each other’s desire; "besotting infatuation” with illegitimate savior, the “ill-fitting covenant,” the settled-for second or third choice, albeit sprinkled with ecclesiastical blessing, cannot fill one's desire.

Their problem is spiritual in nature, with biological impulse and instinctual response unable to offer solution. Only two souls in love, two created for each other, can fill the unremitting existential void, two spirits longing for authentic union.

the great harmonia

There are three bases for marriage: biological, psychological, spiritual. Andrew Jackson Davis offered analysis in his seminal work “The Great Harmonia.” The vast majority wed for the wrong reasons and, in so doing, counterfeit and debase what was meant to be, what Spirit Guide Margaret called, the holiest of human endeavors; even the Pope decried this merchandizing of human flesh.

super stimuli

Biological attractors animate the majority, licensing Niko Tinbergen’s “super stimuli,” mere temporary fever, a boiling of animal inclination. Psychological drivers, too, incite to riot not a few: here we find marriage as antidote to fears of never finding happiness, apprehensions of disgrace and not being chosen, terrors of facing old age alone.

All this defines what passes for marriage in our world, but none of it is honored in the “better neighborhoods” of Summerland. It is only the spiritual marriage, the coming together of Twin Souls, which is recognized in the courts of heaven.

true love: of the soul, not body

“The Wedding Song” speaks of a “calling of the heart.” It is a desperate cry of the hidden person, a cry in the night - the long dark night of the soul; a cry to be answered only by a “union of spirits," the authentic accord of mind touching mind. In this "knowing as one knows oneself," the secret desolation within begins to recede.

True love is rooted in the soul, not the body, and therefore only things of the eternal soul will endure; things of the flesh begin dying at the moment of birth. And unless one's affections represent an extension of the soul's purposes, there will be no enduring romantic relationship. This rule stands unmoved and inviolable.

existential beauty, consummate mystical experience, freedom from illusion, full experience of reality

The once “blind poet,” with her “lumbering, ponderous, helpless knowledge of books,” when true love came knocking, suddenly grasped the total field of what it means to be human. It is “not to eat and drink," Elizabeth exclaimed, "but to feel the life in you, down all the fibres of being, passionately and joyfully.”

Yes, "to feel the life in you"; as such, this life, this “truth, is a living thing,” and when it becomes energized with the advent of the sacred beloved -- the "existential beauty," a "consonance with the whole," the consummate mystical experience -- it will not only pulsate with warming vitality at the core of being but brings “freedom from illusion” and offers “the full experience of reality.”

more than one dared wish for

There is but one particular girl to fill his desire; he offers her the same exclusive gift. They find each other in the Dazzling Darkness. Together then, as darling companions, adventuring through eternal life sharing all experiences, they enter a sense of wholeness and completeness attained, of meaning and purpose actualized; of sacred destiny realized, of soul-pledges deliciously satisfied.

They inhabit perceptions of "coming home," of the utterly familiar, of "you are more than I dared wish for," of extreme delight, of "you are just like me," of "soulmate, myself." All this, indeed, issues as final answer to the "calling of the heart," an emergence from the abyss of aloneness, as it fills, to the top, the pleadings of unexpressed yearning, the indictments of unquieted passions.

ready communion and unbroken fellowship, minds in ecstatic union

With greater maturity, we perceive identities revealed - who’s who and for whom. And in that day of sightedness, minds created for each other will live in rapturous and euphoric union; an emulation of the joyous spirit of the Divine Parent(s).

This ecstasy of ready communion and unbroken fellowship, of sharing all things as darling companions, of "the great relief of having you to talk to," of love "not for a reason," removes the terror of eternal life, provides impetus to unfold the soul's hidden potential, finally satisfies and fills beseeching human desire, and becomes ultimate reason to stay alive for.

 

 

The Dazzling Darkness is a concept representing a frame of mind untrammeled by the dysfunctional ego. Therein, freed from base-alloy animal inclinations, one might apprehend not only the identity of one’s true mate but also a realization of the living presence of God in one’s life. READ MORE

 

 

Editor's last word:

Some people believe that scientific evidence is the best avenue of approach to the wonders of the afterlife. Not really. As the great Spirit Guides themselves attest (see on this page), phenomenal evidence is fine as a starting point, but you'll want to graduate to mystical access, by "going within," as soon as you can. Let's not confuse ourselves. To state this principle impolitely, what could be a direct quote, a teasing jab, from your sacred beloved: "It's the joy, stupid." Only this leads us home, the celestial joy emanating from the soul, whose long-barred doors will be unlocked by the one you love most.

For further discussion on the role of authentic romantic love concerning the afterlife evidence, please review the following:

Editor’s Essay: After 30 years of investigation, here’s what I’ve found as the most convincing evidence for post-mortem survival.